Ohmygerd! Kristen Stewart cheated on Robert Patterson! Alert every major news organization and gather the lynch mob! Someone had sex! Are y'all frakkin' kidding me? People cried foul, demanded blood and were ready to riot in the streets because an actress let her lips move from one guy to another. Ohmygerd.
This right here is why WADL sprang into existence in the first place. Before the push for equal rights for gays, women and every other group demanding equality, there were the Whore: people who enjoy sex without all the shame that the centuries have tacked onto the act. Be hit a little over the shirt hanky or full on hardcore panky, it is a personal choice to fondle and be fondled.
Yet this girl's actions have been hijacked by the general public and used an an excuse to tear her from the pedestal she was placed on by... the same general public.
Oh my motherf@#$&ing gerd.
Let's be very clear here: while her actions may have been wrong (based on your views on such matters) they are her actions and only concern herself, her boyfriend and the man she decided was, at least at the moment, more interesting the that naughty-let's-get-naked way. So everyone should back off and let her do what she will inevitably do. And no, I have no theories on what that might be. Not my business. Nor do I want it to be.
Oh, and as for the why did (insert complainer's name) bash her for this? Stupid reasons. First off, there were the Patterson fans (I am not one - Team Jacob all the way). Oh no, she hurt the man I'll never have a chance to even meet so now I must HATE her publicly from behind my computer screen. Seriously, guys? You've taken up a cause that, for most, isn't really a cause. Its just a (bullsh!t) reason to bash the source of your jealousy. Move on. Trust me, life in the real world will be awesome if you take that obsession-wasted energy and put it towards someone worthwhile, like, um... anything else.
Second stupid reason: She's a role model. I don't want my daughter growing up to be a whore who sleeps around and does bad thing and blah, blah, blah. Who decreed this girl, or any other famous person, to be a role model for today's youth? Celebs don't birth your kids (though some may have inspired the act that led to said birthing) so they are not the ones who should be raising the little darlings/brats. You want an upstanding, moral, decent human being for your kids to look up to? Look in the nearest mirror; that's who it should be.
And just so we're clear, there's nothing wrong with growing up to be a whore. Who wouldn't want a child to become strong, independent, confident and intelligent? Doesn't every parent want their young 'un to become someone in control of their destiny? Who is educated in the ways of the world but not jaded and withdrawn? Yes, people, add a free-thinking mind about sex this is what a WADLer is. This is what celebs like Kristen Stewart are. You want these people to be role models? Than take them for what they are: human beings who think their own thoughts, speak their own minds, make their own ways and sleep with as many or few partners as they choose. They are free thinkers.
When I have children, that's what I'll be teaching them. Think for yourself. Do what makes you happy (while staying safe, of course). Be the person you are meant to be: you. Even if their ways are not mine, that's alright. If they stray from their lover, I will not judge. If they If they marry the nice trans girl down the street, its their life to live. Even if that means they take a vow of chastity and never know the joys of sex, its still not my place to say its wrong and hang them out to dry.
Oh gerd, just let them love the written word.
Live and let live, right? The same goes for those in the public eye. They are human and they have free will. We should not be crucifying them because their morals and our morals may not always agree.